cocooned in a glass container

I was cocooned in a glass container on top of a hill, shrouded in clouds and mist. Eva Cassidy sang a bluesy "Wade in the Water." Looking out, the infinity deck was like a ship's bow and we were sailing through the storm.

Every other year is our all-family together, together Thanksgiving gathering.

2018 happened to be that gathering year, and I was spoiled; getting to stay in one of our favorite spots - the cabin above the clouds - that belongs to some friends.

Thanksgiving Day was a cacophony of activity. Cousins big and little did their thing. The littles running through the house, even though they were supposed to be upstairs. Tons of giggling could be heard, and of course, the requisite getting mad; just because that's what happens. Love and interaction does that. Family, even at young ages is messy, but I wouldn't trade or discard it.

Stories, old and new were re-lived. Some old stories were given new applications.

All isn't rose-colored and perfect like Hallmark movies. No, there's tension, apprehension and unfamiliarity. But, what I noticed was a good amount of grace and many genuine moments; conversations on serious notes, jokes and more laughter.

We held hands and were grateful for the enormous amount of food we had, while being mindful of the lack others experience.

Mostly, I was aware love. Not the type that's all tidy and honestly, not real. No, the word I'd use is authentic, because it came from the places that each of us are in - it came from life.

So, as I sat in my glass container, I was conscious of the value of family, as messed up and insanely crazy as it may be. Whether it's biological or figured-out, our gathering and being together is a true connecting treasure.

Happy post Thanksgiving, my friends -

Missy

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